How to avoid feeling homesick when traveling

It’s time to go off on a traveling adventure and the excitement is immense. You are riding a high of emotions and feeling elated by taking this giant leap. Finally, you are following your dreams.

But a little while into the trip you start to think of home and everyone you left behind. You get a little bit of FOMO (fear of missing out) when the girls get together for a night out or your cousin is getting married but you can’t go.

You wonder how your best mate is getting on at his new job or how your niece did in the school play. You wish you could speak to them about it and you start to miss them.

How to avoid feeling homesick while traveling

We all get a little homesick when we’re away from home for a long time but the key to not letting it ruin your trip, distract you from your journey and ultimately shatter your dreams (sorry, a bit dramatic but some people do give up and go home at this point) is really not that crazy or ground-breaking.

The best way to avoid feeling homesick when traveling is to stay in contact with friends and family.

Ok, now you think I am crazy because that just sounds too simple. Honestly, follow these steps and read my tips and advice and I promise it will make being away from home and traveling a whole lot easier.

2 You traveling & exploring + staying in contact with friends & family = happy times & new adventures

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My tips for staying in contact with friends and family while you travel

1. Don’t lose touch

It’s easier than ever to stay in touch with home, so make sure you use all available resources. Gone are the days of pre-arranging a specific day for mum to be sat by the home phone while you trudged to the nearest pay phone, grabbed a handful of coins, worked out the time difference and tried to make sure you called her before Eastenders started. Here are some simple ways to stay in touch…

– Use WhatsApp

You don’t even have to worry about calling credit, just download the app and connect to free wifi. Whatsapp is honestly the best way to stay in touch with any family or friends when you are overseas. Even if you’re in a rush or just about to head out and do something cool, just reply with an emoji or two. The video call on Whatsapp is my savior, I watch my nephews and nieces open their birthday presents and get to see the happiness on their little faces in real time.

– Email them

Ok, it’s pretty old school but sometimes sending a text or whatsapp is just too short. If you have a lot to say type it up onto an email. Once you start an email conversation its really easy to keep it up. You can check back what you talked about and answer any questions, so that nothing gets left unsaid.

– Send postcards or letters

Now this is really old school but really effective. Buy a postcard here or there, write a little letter about what you’ve seen and pop it in the post box. It will be such a nice surprise for whoever receives it back home and you know it will get pride of place on the fridge.

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2. Remember the important days

Often while you’re away, the people at home think you are too busy having a great time to even think about them. This is never really the case, make sure they know that you are still thinking about them by remembering the important days like birthdays and anniversaries. Here are some ways you can easily remember the important days…

– Pack an Address book

I take an address book with me whenever I travel. There is no way I can remember everyone’s exact address. Also add their phone numbers (you never know when you might lose your phone) and email addresses. That way you have all the info you need to send postcards, letters, and emails.

– Keep a diary

A diary, planner or journal, is great to keep track of what you’re doing and when during your travels. Add all your friends and family’s birthday and other important dates to help you keep track. You don’t want to realize you forgot your parents ruby wedding anniversary or your oldest friends 30th birthday three days late.

– Set up a Moonpig account

Sending a card or letter in the post isn’t always easy, getting stamps, finding a post box, making sure it arrives on time. If you want to make sure you never miss a birthday get a Moonpig account. I pre-pay the credit on mine so it’s ready to go whenever I need it and I know it will be posted the following day. You can personalise the cards and add photos, it’s great.

– Use Amazon

If you want to send a little something extra and buy a gift for someone back home Amazon is the way to go. I send all my Christmas presents via Amazon. You can set multiple delivery addresses, ask for the price to be removed and even get items gift bagged. Even on the other side of the World you can send a nice little present home and make someone’s day. If your not sure what to buy them, send an Amazon gift card so they can choose something they like.

Click on the link below to find out more about gift cards.

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3. Tell them what you are doing and send photos

No one likes a brag but at the same time make sure you are telling people at home about your adventures. The more they know about what you’re getting up to the more they will feel involved and have things to chat with you about. Social media is a great way to keep the conversation flowing…

– Use Snapchat

Snapchat is such a fun way to send silly photos to each other. Ok, your old work colleagues might not have an awesome sunset backdrop for their photo like you do but they can do a group rabbit ear filter pic and send you that. Its light-hearted and can include everyone. I like to record videos of me with a silly voice changer and send them to my sister. I’m pretty sure she loves it and it makes my nephews giggle.

– Use Facebook

Good old Facebook is pretty helpful all round for staying in touch with having to make much effort. You can send a private message, tag someone in a cute dog video or share something you think they might like on their page. Photo uploading is one of those features that we kind of forget Facebook can still do. Sure, you don’t want to overdo the beach sunbathing selfies or upload all the snaps you took on that week-long jungle trek. Just a few of your best shots in each place you travel to will help your Great Aunt know where you are now and she can have a little nose through your photos.

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4. Ask what they are doing

Don’t get too caught up in exciting times you are having and forget to ask friends and family what is going on their lives. Take time to chat and stay in touch like we’ve covered but make sure you are asking them questions and helping them out if they need advice or support.

5. Invite them to meet up with you

It’s not completely out of the realms of possibility that one of your friends flies over to meet up with you when they get some holiday time off work. Or you manage to sync your travels and meet up for a few days stopover somewhere they can fly to pretty cheaply.

6. Make plans for when you’re back

Look ahead to when you are due to get back, make some plans, arrange to see people go out and catch up. Having something to look forward to will help you to stop wondering what they are all doing right now

I hope some of these tips have been helpful in aiding your homesick feelings. Stay in contact with loved ones honestly they are not that far away.

Do you have any tips to share about how to avoid feeling homesick while traveling? Share them in the comments box below ↓↓

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  1. 28th April 2018 / 4:38 am

    Great post! I frequently get homesick and these are some great tips! 🙂

  2. 3rd February 2018 / 9:06 pm

    It’s funny how you can be having the absolute time of your life, never to be repeated and still have FOMO for people and your life at home! Social Media is the best isn’t it – so cheap and easy to stay in touch. Great tips!

    • 3rd February 2018 / 10:21 pm

      Thanks Sarah, I love that social media makes it so easy to stay in touch with home while I’m away. Yeah, FOMO is a funny thing isn’t it. Glad you enjoyed this post!

  3. 2nd February 2018 / 9:15 am

    I agree that the idea of staying in touch seems simple but sometimes it can be so hard! With the time difference and adventures and figuring things out, it seems like days can go by before you realize you haven’t been doing your part to let people know you love and miss them. It’s like the first time you got a boyfriend and forgot about your girlfriends until you realized how much you missed them! With that said, I think your advice here is helpful for setting good “keep in touch” habits before any homesickness has a chance to set in. Another lovely post!

    • 2nd February 2018 / 9:38 am

      Thanks Danielle, it can be really hard I know what you mean. Time sometimes passes by so quickly. But I always find that the longer the time passed without contact the more down I feel and the more I miss my family and friends. For me, regular, little, fun ways of keeping contact make it much easier. Getting into these habits really help me to not feel so far away from them.

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